How to Make a Cornstarch Fleshlight?

How to Make a Cornstarch Fleshlight? Step-by-step Guide

Yes, there are thousands of high-tech, colorful, flashy fleshlights full of bells and whistles out there. But what if you just want something simple that gets the job done?

I have tried out a ton of DIY pocket pussies over the years, and this is still the best DIY fleshlight! All you need are a few household ingredients to experience the sensation of penetration at home. And the best thing I like about DIY Fleshlights, you don’t have to hide them!

If you want a warm, soft, and wet fleshlight, you should try making one from cornstarch. If you were wondering how to make a cornstarch fleshlight, keep reading to find out.

DIY Fleshlights

A National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior from Indiana University showed that the majority of men between 18 and 69 masturbate. Most people’s frequencies range from a few times per week to a few times per year, showing that it happens regularly.

Women’s Health magazine conducted a survey that showed that 66% of Men’s Health readers had purchased sex toys before, one of which was the fleshlight.

Fleshlights (a.k.a. pocket pussies) simulate penetrative sex without a partner. They feel better than a hand and can make you orgasm faster. You can find them for sale from $10 to $100, but high-quality fleshlights usually cost at least $60.

That’s where the do-it-yourself fleshlight comes in. If you are tired of giving yourself handjobs but are on a budget, you can use household materials for pleasure. Some common options include strapping two sponges together with rubber bands, boring a hole in a pumpkin, or using a soft sock.

If these options do not appeal to you and you want something closer to silicone, consider learning how to make a cornstarch fleshlight.

Gather Your Ingredients

If you are not too scared to fuck some food, head to the kitchen and gather these ingredients. You do not need any specific brands, so just grab whatever is available.

You will need:

  • Cornstarch
  • Room temperature water
  • Boiling water
  • Hot dog, sausage, or cucumber
  • Ice water
  • Wide-brimmed, microwave-safe cup
  • Spoon
  • Microwave
  • Lubrication

Prep the Base

To begin, you fill your wide-brimmed cup a little over halfway with the cornstarch. Then, add some room temperature water until it is about three-quarters full. Mix the cornstarch and water with a spoon.

Next, you will top off the mixture with boiling water. Leave about an inch at the top to avoid spillage. Ensure you stir it well with your spoon to avoid clumping the cornstarch at the bottom. It should resemble a milky, frothy fluid.

You can finish the process by microwaving the cup for about two and a half minutes. Try to monitor the cup while it heats. Your goal is to have a more translucent and solid solution, which may take more or less time, depending on the wattage of your microwave. It should not be completely solid, but it should stay in the cup if you tilt it forward.

Create the Mold

Now that you have prepped the base, you can make the mold for your penis to enter. You will create the shape using an appropriately-sized, phallic food, such as a hot dog, sausage, or cucumber (vegans deserve sex toys too).

You will need to trim the phallic food into an edible dick before using it to make the mold. Start by shaving the sides to be slightly slimmer than your penis. Then, cut it to about 1 and ⅓ of your penis’s length.

Insert the edible dick in the base semifluid until it is slightly above the bottom. Let it cool down for a few minutes before submerging it in a large bowl of ice water. Leave it in the bowl for a few minutes until it reaches a temperature that you can freeze.

Finish off the process by placing it in your freezer for around 90 minutes.

Finishing Touches

Once you have finished crafting your mold, you can add some heat again before use. Pull out your phallic food, add some lube, and pop it in the microwave for another minute. Resist the urge to fuck it until it has cooled to a comfortably warm temperature.

Now, get ready for the most fun you will ever have with cornstarch!

You can either pull it out of the glass or leave it inside. I recommend leaving it inside because the DIYFL can get slippery, and your cup will provide a nice handle to hold as you go to town.

How Does It Feel?

At first, I was skeptical of the cornstarch fleshlight. It did somewhat feel like silicone, but I did not trust that it would stay together long enough for me to finish. Surprisingly enough, it did.

When I tried it the first time, I pulled it out of the glass. It crumbled pretty quickly when I sped up my thrusts. However, it did feel pretty good compared to a lot of homemade pocket pussies.

I decided to make another one and leave it in a cup with a handle. That way, I could grasp onto it as I pounded that starch and it would not fall apart as easily.

Overall, I found the cornstarch fleshlight enjoyable. It feels better than socks and sponges, but it does not compare to even the cheap pocket pussies you find in stores. Nevertheless, it is still a good option if you do not have the money for a fleshlight and want to masturbate pronto.


If you want to try something new with your solo sex life, try making a DIY Fleshlight from some cornstarch. You can use household ingredients to replicate a vagina without having to pay much at all.

While it will not feel as pleasurable as highest rated fleshlight, you can still have a unique and enjoyable experience.

If you do not have cornstarch lying around, you can follow the same steps using potato starch. Other thickeners that could work include all-purpose flour and rice flour, but these have about half the thickening abilities of cornstarch.

Have fun with your cornstarch!