Sex toys are a dime-a-dozen these days. There’s something for everyone in the world of sex toys, but the strap-on is one of the most confusing and intimidating things to buy when you don’t know what you’re doing. Double-ended strap ons are no exception—they can be pretty pricey and intimidating if you have no idea how to use them!
Strap-on dildos are the latest trend in couples play. These double-sided dildos can be used by either partner and offer a variety of different pleasure sensations for both partners! In this blog post, we will discuss everything you need to know about double-ended toys. From how they work to the best ones out there, this is your definitive guide to the double-sided strap-on dildo!
Best Double-Sided Strap-Ons:
Different Types of Double-Sided Strap-Ons
Double-sided strap ons are a type of dildo that is designed to be used by two partners. There are many different options for what styles you want, and the benefits vary depending upon your needs.
What are the different types of double-sided strap ons?
Strapless Strap-on Dildo: The strapless strap-on dildo consists entirely of a silicone or rubber shaft, with no external penetrative end—making it perfect for hands-free use.
Double Ended Strap On w/ Vibration Speed: A vibrating strapless double-ended adapter can be used to power your favorite sex toy and turn it into an instant pleasure machine!
Remote Control: When you want that extra control, the remote control offers all sorts of possibilities, from bunny ears to multiple vibration speed settings changed with scroll-wheel controllers. You can even get a USB-rechargeable strap-on!
A vibrating double-ended strap-on provides the most intense sensation, but it also requires batteries and is not hands-free. As a result, many people find silicone strapless strap-on dildo versions of this toy more convenient because they are easier to use while in motion or when using other toys simultaneously.
Choose between remote-controlled or strapless if you're looking for something more discreet during intercourse.
Picking the Right Double-Ended Strap-On for You & Your Partner
Double-ended strap ons are a great way to experience a simultaneous pleasure for couples of any gender. Double penetration is often recommended as an alternative or adjunct to vaginal intercourse and can be done either vaginally or anally.
Double-ended strap ons are an enjoyable way to explore with your partner. However, couples need to agree about the size, and a beginner should go for something smaller.
To measure, use two fingers as an idea of what you think will work best in terms of dildo length or girth - it's always worth going smaller if there is any doubt! Of course, the shape and ergonomics can make all the difference when choosing one, so do some research before buying anything too expensive just if you find that they're not suitable after all.
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Dildo Strap-On Materials: Soft & Smooth, or Solid Steel?
Silicone material offers many benefits as it's non-toxic, unlikely to cause an allergic reaction if used with lubricant (which can also enhance sensation), durable enough that it won't break easily under normal wear and tear.
But what about compatibility with your body chemistry - does this type of toy contain phthalates which could potentially seep out while being penetrated by another person?
The material you choose for your strap-on should be safe and flexible. For a non-toxic, allergy-free experience, silicone is a clear choice!
There are also stainless steel double-ended dildos, but you need to be more careful with these.
If you're into temperature play, stainless steel dildo is a good option because it conducts warmth well with your body heat or if you want something that won't give the same sensation as silicone but still feels nice inside of someone else's hole! Just remember: use lots of lube slowly while being careful not to make quick, sudden movements - otherwise, there might be more pain than pleasure happening here.
Benefits of Using Double-Ended Strap-Ons
Double-sided strap-on dildos are an excellent way for two people (especially lesbians) to experience simultaneous penetration while they’re together. It also works well when one person wants the other on top so that both of them can feel it!
The best part is, not only will you get off quicker, but because your partner has something in their ass too, then they might be more inclined to do things like talk dirty or make eye contact with you during sex...who knows what else?
Couples who are not yet entirely comfortable with anal can use this as an opportunity to experiment safely and sensually.
One of the most significant benefits is a role reversal for women. Women now have an opportunity with their female partners or male partner if they're more submissive and don't want another man penetrating them because she's going to be able to penetrate him instead!
While some may feel intimidated at first by the idea of wearing one- as you would with any other sex toy or gadget, which is new territory- they're just like putting on your favorite pair of jeans.
Drawbacks of the Strap-On Dildo
Some people love double-ended strapons because they can please both parties at the same time. But if you’re not compatible with your partner, it would be hard to find a toy that could do both satisfyingly for each person. Double-ended toys are also expensive and sometimes difficult to clean!
Some like light, and some prefer heavy. The drawback is that it doesn’t cater to both preference types, so you still need another dildo to please everyone's needs. But at least this option does provide an idea of which direction your partner might be leaning towards when picking out the perfect toy for them!
How to Use a Strap-On
To start with, it's important to cover each end of the strap-on with a water-based lubricant.
Next, take care of any business in the front – get yourself nice and wet before going ahead. You don't want anything getting uncomfortable down there while you're playing with someone else's bits!
Then lie back comfortably on the bed or couch surface; use pillows under your hips if needed so that everything feels just right when penetration begins.
You can insert a double-sided strap in many different positions. One of my favorites is the crab stance! Get down low and face each other, one person kneeling with their hands flat on the floor while facing away from you.
Slide the dildo between your legs so that it's resting against both of your bodies, then slowly start to push it inside as well as intertwining your legs for deeper sensation!
Once you have inserted both ends of the double dildo, bend up one side to use as a handle while guiding penetration from that same side towards your partner for maximum control during sex play!
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Conclusion
As you can see, double-ended strap ons are an excellent way to spice up your sex life. They allow for more variety in the bedroom, and they offer a unique experience that is hard to find outside of this type of toy.
With so many different types out there, you must do some research and determine which one would be best for yourself or with your partner before buying!
Double-ended strap-on toys may not work for everyone, but if used correctly, they could make all the difference in intimacy in a relationship. Though we're not all about having kinky sex every day, sometimes it's fun just being naughty from time to time and experimenting with new things - especially if those experiments involve penetration!
