Stop wiggling around trying to hit the perfect spot with your sex toys, and try out a dildo mount hands-free sex toy. Dildo mounts and suction cup dildos help you hold your sex toys in place so you can get right to party-time.
Dildo mounts are tricky, and you can even hurt yourself if you don’t know what you’re doing, so I’ve written up this guide covering everything you need to know before improving your sex life with a dildo mount for masturbation or double penetration with a partner.
Different Types of Dildo Mounts
Best Dildo Mounts:
- Liberator Humphrey Toy Mount Sex Pillow
- Price: $169.99
- Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Hot Seat
- Price: $54.99
Cushion Mounts
Pros
- Comfortable, hands-free fun
- The setup was super simple
- Discreet and easy to keep hidden
- Great for solo and partner play alike
- Works for multiple positions
Cons
- Because fabrics are involved, staining is possible
- Typically a massive gadget
How to Use a Cushion Mount
I found using a cushion dildo mount to be easiest for solo play—it was simply a matter of placing the toy securely into the built-in pockets. After doing that, I applied the proper lube and got to the fun part.
The nice thing about using a cushion is that I was able to set the dildo to different angles and length settings. This let me get things exactly the way I liked them to guarantee a great orgasm.
How to Clean and Take Care of a Cushion Mount
Because I used a cushion dildo mount that allowed me to use my own toy, I found cleanup and maintenance to be incredibly easy. I only had to remove my dildo and clean it with warm water and some mild soap.
To clean the actual cushion, I took off the removable cover and threw it in the washing machine. Underneath the cover, the rest of the cushion was covered with a moisture-proof material. I just wiped it down with a cloth.
What Kind of Lube To Use
Because there is fabric used in the cushion, I recommend using a water-based lube so that there won't be any damage to the material.
What Kind of Materials To Choose From
Most cushions are made from one of three materials: foam, fabric, or inflatable plastic. The foam and fabric cushions are sturdier and more comfortable. The inflatable cushions are easier to store since you can deflate them.
Things to Watch For
When you are deciding what type of cushion to buy, pay attention to:
- The fashion in which you attach your dildo. Does it have pockets, or is a dildo already attached?
- The type of material. Does it have a machine washable cover, or does the entire mount have to be cleaned in one piece?
- The durability. Is it sturdy enough for your needs?
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Suction Cup Mounts
Pros
- This type of mount is easy to setup
- Low price tag, since you can use existing surfaces found in your home
- Deeper penetration than hands-on dildos
Cons
- Not as versatile as other mounts—I found myself restricted to either horizontal or vertical placement of the dildo. It's difficult to get any downward movement.
What's the Best Surface to Mount a Suction Dildo On?
Almost any smooth, flat, non-porous surface works well as a place to attach suction cup toys. I liked the shower wall the best because it was very convenient for cleanup.
I also liked that when I wanted to position my sex toy mount vertically, I could just move it to the edge of the tub.
It is possible to use many other surfaces for mounting adult suction toys, though—a tile or laminate floor works well for suction cups. If you want something you can move around, a heavy plastic bucket works, too.
Whatever you decide on, make sure your dildo mount doesn't have sharp edges and isn't in any danger of breaking or slipping around.
How to Use a Suction Cup Mount
I found using this type of dildo mount to be the easiest. All you need to do is find a suitable surface and attach the dildo. By attaching the dildo horizontally, I could simulate doggie style. If I placed it vertically cowgirl style was super easy.
How to Clean and Take Care of a Suction Cup Mount
There isn't much when it comes to cleaning these mounts. All that I needed to do was clean the actual dildo with some warm water and soap, then wipe down the surface that I mounted the dildo on with a damp cloth.
What Kind of Lube to Use?
You need to mount your suction cup to a hard, flat, and non-porous surface. This means the type of lube doesn't matter to the dildo mount itself—it's all about the type of dildo you're using. I personally use water-based lube for almost everything since it's easy to clean and non-corrosive.
What Kind of Materials to Choose From
The only requirement is that your surface is hard, flat, and non-porous. Plastic, vinyl, and tile work for suction cups. Some people use glass surfaces, but that seems crazy—I don't recommend it.
Things To Watch Out For
When choosing what to use to hold your suction cup dildo, it is important to keep safety in mind. Make sure there are no sharp edges to the surface you plan to use and that it isn't in any danger of breaking.
Fucking Machine
Pros
- The most realistic experience
- Capable of stronger stimulation due to the extra power
- Your sex toy does all the work for you!
Cons
- This is the most expensive dildo mount
- Not very discreet—can be very loud
How To Use a Fucking Machine
The first thing to do is learn about the machine by reading any safety documentation from the manufacturer. After doing this, you can set up your machine and adjust your desired settings. After that, simply lube up and get yourself in position. Turn the machine on, and lose yourself in the sensations.
How to Clean and Take Care of a Fucking Machine
The process for cleaning is going to depend on the type of fucking machine you decide on. To clean the dildo portion, use soap and warm water. For the rest of the machine, clean it in the fashion recommended by the manufacturer. Make sure to perform maintenance as recommended by the manufacturer, too.
What Kind of Lube to Use
The dildo determines the type of lube you need. The best dildo mount can handle any kind of lubrication, but water-based lube is the safest choice for most materials.
What Kind of Materials to Choose From
The first thing you need to decide is what type of machine you want. A handheld machine is cheaper and more discreet but doesn't have the power of a full-size machine.
You will also need to decide if you want a thrusting machine. There are hybrids available that both thrust and vibrate. Make sure that the dildo portion is made of a safe material if you aren't using your own toy.
Things to Watch Out For
Machines can be found at variable speeds. Look for one with adjustable settings and enough speed to satisfy you. I recommend buying one capable of higher speeds to give you more options.
The amount of power the machine uses should also be adjustable. You don't want to buy a machine that you can't adjust only to find out that it is too powerful. I also recommend making sure that the machine is made by a reputable manufacturer.
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How to choose the proper size of the dildo
If you are going to be using your own dildo, make sure it will fit in the mount. Before you buy, check the dildo mount's product specs to verify the recommended size range.
If the sex toy holder has a dildo included, ensure that it isn't so large as to cause discomfort.
How Do I Make A DIY Dildo Mount
To make a DIY pillow mount, all you need to do is find a pillow or cushion that is suitable and secure a dildo to it. You can sew a pocket to hold the dildo or use a strap as the dildo holder.
If you're using a suction cup dildo, find a suitable surface to stick it. Just make sure it's sturdy enough and doesn't have any sharp edges.
It is possible to make a machine—I've even read about people using power tools, but this is not recommended as it is possible to injure yourself. Only use machines made by reputable sex toy makers you can trust.
